I write not to be understood, but to understand myself.
Chieri Sono, the late Japanese poet and activist, is remembered for her unflinching honesty and lyrical intensity. Her words often reflected her deeply held beliefs about freedom, identity, and resistance. Though she lived much of her life in the public eye — first as a pop idol, then as a controversial filmmaker and writer — it was her poetry that truly revealed her soul. Below are some of Chieri Sono’s most famous quotes, each offering a glimpse into the mind of a woman who refused to be silenced.
"I write not to be understood, but to understand myself."
This quote, taken from her 1988 poetry collection Ai to Eros, captures the introspective nature of Chieri’s writing. She often used poetry as a way to navigate her own emotions and experiences, rather than to preach or persuade. Readers who came to her work expecting declarations of love or beauty were often surprised by the raw vulnerability she displayed.
"Freedom is not given — it’s taken."
Chieri frequently spoke about the constraints placed on women in Japanese society, especially in the entertainment industry. This quote, from a 1994 interview with Shukan Bunshun, reflects her belief that liberation must be actively pursued. It became a rallying cry for fans who saw her as a feminist figure, someone who rejected the roles others tried to assign her.
"I am not a victim — I am a witness."
Spoken during a public reading in Osaka in 2003, this line became one of her most quoted. Chieri often wrote and spoke about trauma, including her own experiences with abuse and loss. Rather than framing herself as powerless, she positioned herself as someone who bore witness to pain — both her own and that of others. This perspective gave her work a unique moral weight.
"The camera doesn’t lie — but it doesn’t tell the whole truth either."
Chieri made several experimental short films in the early 2000s, many of which explored the intersection of memory and identity. This quote, from the liner notes of her 2001 film Shadows of the Heart, reflects her fascination with visual storytelling. She believed that while film could capture reality, it could also distort it — a theme she returned to often in her work.
"I am not afraid of silence — I am afraid of being silenced."
This line, published in her final poetry collection Last Light (2019), speaks to Chieri’s lifelong battle with censorship and criticism. She was often accused of being provocative or controversial, especially during the 2000s when she began writing more openly about political issues. Yet she remained defiant, insisting that to be silenced was the true tragedy.
"Love is not soft — it’s fire."
Chieri’s take on love was rarely sentimental. In a 2007 essay titled The Burning Heart, she expanded on this quote, arguing that love is not passive or gentle, but a force that demands action and sacrifice. This philosophy infused much of her romantic poetry, which often blurred the line between passion and pain.
"We are all broken — that’s how the light gets in."
While this line is sometimes misattributed to Leonard Cohen, Chieri Sono also used a nearly identical version in a 2011 interview with Poetry Now Japan. She admired Cohen’s work and often referenced his themes of imperfection and redemption. Her version — “We are all cracked — that’s how hope finds us” — echoes the same sentiment and reveals her belief in the beauty of human fragility.
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