The Myth of Balance

The Problem With "Balance"

They talk about balance like it’s some holy grail, like if you just find the right rhythm between work and life, everything will sort itself out. I’ve never found that to be true. I’ve worked hard, yes—relentlessly, some might say. But I’ve never felt burned out because I’ve always understood what I’m doing. Work isn’t a burden; it’s an identity. You don’t balance your identity with something else. You live it.

I’ve heard people say, “You need to slow down. You need to breathe.” But when you love what you do—and when you know you’re good at it—why would you slow down? When I wake up, I’m thinking about the next issue of Vogue, the next runway show, the next designer we should spotlight. I don’t need a vacation to recharge. I need purpose.

The Power of Focus

I’ve often been criticized for being single-minded. That’s fair—I am. But people mistake focus for obsession. It’s not. Focus is clarity. When you know what you care about, you stop wasting time trying to care about everything else. I’ve never been interested in the idea of having it all. I’ve been interested in having what matters.

I’ve worked with young editors who tell me they want to “find balance” because they’re afraid of burning out. My advice? Burn. Burn brightly. There’s nothing wrong with giving everything to your work, as long as it gives you something back. The key is not to spread yourself thin trying to meet some ideal of what a balanced life should look like. You’ll only end up dissatisfied with every part of it.

Burnout Isn’t What You Think It Is

Burnout doesn’t come from working too hard. It comes from working without meaning. If you’re grinding away at something that doesn’t fulfill you, of course you’ll burn out. That’s not a failure of willpower; that’s a failure of alignment. People think they can fix that by slowing down, taking a retreat, meditating more. But those are just pauses. They don’t fix the root of the problem.

I’ve never had that problem. I’ve never questioned whether what I do matters. Fashion isn’t frivolous—it’s a language. It tells the story of who we are, who we want to be, and who we reject. When you’re shaping that language, you’re shaping culture. That’s not something to be ashamed of. That’s something to throw yourself into.

The Luxury of Choice

I’m not naïve. I know not everyone has the luxury of choosing work they love. Some people are just trying to survive, to pay the rent, to keep their heads above water. For them, the idea of “burning brightly” sounds like a luxury. And it is. But that doesn’t mean the principle doesn’t hold. Even if you can’t change your job, you can change your relationship to it. You can find meaning in small things. You can make choices that reflect your values, even in small ways.

And if you do have the privilege of choosing your work, then you have a responsibility to choose wisely. Don’t settle for something that bores you just because it pays well or looks good on paper. That’s how you burn out. That’s how you waste your time.

Burn Brighter, Not Slower

So no, I don’t believe in balance. I believe in burning brightly. I believe in throwing yourself into what you care about, and letting that fire sustain you. Yes, it’s exhausting sometimes. Yes, it demands everything. But it also gives everything back. I’ve never regretted working hard for something I believed in.

People ask me how I keep going. The answer is simple: I don’t stop. I don’t need to. I love what I do. And that love fuels me. I don’t need a yoga retreat to remind me who I am. I need the pages of Vogue, the voices of designers, the pulse of the industry. That’s where I find my energy. That’s where I find my life.

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