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Gen Z and millennials both get a bad rap for being fragile, overly online, and emotionally needy. Critics love to pit the two generations against each other as if one invented suffering and the other...
Read article →Stress is not only a mental experience. It is a full-body event, and modern life has created conditions where many people are living in a near-constant state of physiological stress activation without...
Read article →Seasonal depression affects far more people than those who meet the clinical criteria for Seasonal Affective Disorder. For many, the shift in light and temperature produces something less than a clini...
Read article →Most of us were handed a complicated relationship with our bodies before we were old enough to know what was happening. We absorbed messages from family members who commented on food, from media that...
Read article →Menopause is one of the most significant hormonal transitions a person can go through, and it is also one of the most under-discussed in mainstream healthcare. The symptoms are wide-ranging and unpred...
Read article →Movement and mental health have an undeniably strong relationship, but the way exercise culture typically frames this relationship is almost entirely counterproductive to the people who need it most....
Read article →The postpartum period is one of the most intense and least supported transitions a person can go through. The medical system, which was closely attentive during pregnancy, largely steps back after del...
Read article →Shame is the wrong fuel for behavior change. This sounds obvious when stated directly, but the entire architecture of diet culture, much of what passes for nutritional advice, and large portions of th...
Read article →Sleep is the most consequential health behavior that most people treat as the most negotiable. We build systems around exercise, eating, and supplementation with great specificity while treating sleep...
Read article →Pain is both a physical event and a psychological one, and the relationship between the two is more tangled than most people realize. When you are in chronic pain, your brain begins to change. Neural...
Read article →Recovery from an eating disorder is not a straight line, and anyone who has lived it knows that the difficulty is not only about food. It is about the thoughts that run underneath, the relationship wi...
Read article →Meditation has an image problem. In its popular form, it appears serene and effortless: a person seated in perfect posture, eyes closed, the expression of someone for whom the mind's noise has simply...
Read article →Most people who have been told they are too demanding in relationships have not actually asked for too much. What they have usually done is asked in a way that felt threatening to the other person — t...
Read article →Living with a chronic illness is not a single event you adapt to once and move on. It is a continuous negotiation with your own body, your plans, your identity, and the people around you. The emotiona...
Read article →Everyone who has maintained a fitness practice for any meaningful length of time knows that motivation is not a reliable fuel source. It runs out. It runs out on cold mornings, after disrupted sleep,...
Read article →Every relationship crosses borders of some kind. Differences in family background, class, religion, education — these are the invisible architectures that two people bring to every dinner table and ev...
Read article →Being single for a long time is not a problem that requires solving. I want to say that clearly at the start, because almost everything in the culture will tell you otherwise. The assumption embedded...
Read article →The particular cruelty of feeling lonely in a relationship is the absence of permission to name it. Loneliness is supposed to be a single person's problem. When you are partnered — especially when you...
Read article →The fear of trying again after trauma is not irrational. This is the first thing to say, and it is important to say it without qualification. If you have been hurt in a relationship in a way that left...
Read article →Finding your authentic self is a phrase so overused that it has nearly collapsed under its own weight. But for LGBTQ+ people navigating dating, it describes something precise and difficult: the proces...
Read article →Vulnerability has a public relations problem. It has been so thoroughly written about, podcasted, workshopped, and TED-talked that the word itself has started to feel like a prescription — as if knowi...
Read article →There is a particular anxiety that lives in the gap between your profile and your face on a first date — the knowledge that someone has been looking at a curated version of you and is now confronted w...
Read article →Dating apps have fundamentally changed what the early stages of romantic pursuit cost, and not in the way the designers probably intended. The promise was abundance — more options, lower friction, bet...
Read article →The dating world has its own unspoken aesthetics, and bodies are part of the currency. That's not a cynical observation — it's the honest context inside which millions of people try to find connection...
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