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I did not think of myself as an artist for most of my life. The category felt like it belonged to other people — people with talent, with training, with a particular kind of confidence I had never pos...
Read article →Serious people do not play enough. This is not a quirky observation or a lifestyle suggestion. It is a claim with significant empirical backing, and the consequences of insufficient play in adult life...
Read article →Improv comedy has a reputation for being terrifying. You stand in front of people, someone shouts out a location or a scenario, and you have to conjure something from nothing — funny, alive, present —...
Read article →High-sensation seekers are not always the loudest people in the room, though they sometimes are. What defines them is something more specific: a consistent orientation toward novelty, intensity, and t...
Read article →There is a particular kind of writing that most people never show anyone. It lives in notebooks with soft covers that are harder to open than hard-backed ones. In phone notes with long, strange titles...
Read article →The fear of judgment is so deeply woven into the experience of making art that most people have stopped noticing it. It runs in the background of every creative session, shaping what gets written down...
Read article →The inner critic speaks in a voice that is usually familiar. It sounds like someone you know — a parent, a teacher, an older sibling — but it has colonized the inside of your head so thoroughly that i...
Read article →You have had an idea that you knew, the moment you had it, that you would not share in the meeting. Too strange. Too hard to explain quickly. Possibly embarrassing. The kind of idea that requires too...
Read article →Emotional labor is the work of managing your own emotions — and often the emotions of everyone around you — in order to maintain a functional, harmonious environment. It involves reading the room befo...
Read article →There is a particular kind of creative freedom that lives inside fanfiction communities, and most people who have never been part of one have no idea it exists. Walk into any corner of Archive of Our...
Read article →Creative blocks are strange things to be inside of. From the outside, they look like inaction — the project is not progressing, the pages are blank, the ideas are not coming. From the inside, they fee...
Read article →You have been explaining something for the last forty-five minutes. To anyone who is not you, this probably sounds like a problem. But from inside the experience, it feels like something much more urg...
Read article →There is a particular kind of loneliness that does not have a clean name. It is not the loneliness of being alone in a room. It is not even the loneliness of being left out. It is the loneliness of be...
Read article →It is nine in the evening. You have been around people all day — or maybe you have been alone all day, which for an introvert amounts to the same amount of social energy expenditure, because even onli...
Read article →Friendship is sometimes described as if it were a simple equation: care plus time equals closeness. But anyone who has been inside an actual friendship for more than a few years knows it is more compl...
Read article →Most people have had at least one experience of saying too much. The conversation that tipped past what felt appropriate, the emotional disclosure that made the other person go quiet in a way that was...
Read article →There is a very specific kind of friend that most people wish they had but few actually do. The one you can call at three in the morning not because something catastrophic has happened, but because yo...
Read article →You have explained this before. You know you have. Maybe it was to a therapist who nodded but clearly had somewhere else to be, or to a friend who said "yeah, you mentioned that" with a little too muc...
Read article →There is a version of a hard day that ends with someone asking "how are you?" and you saying "fine" — not because you are fine, but because you have already done the math. You know how long the real a...
Read article →By the time you get home from work, you have been performing. All day. Not in the theatrical sense, though there is something theatrical about it — a costume, a script, a character who makes eye conta...
Read article →There is a quality of presence that most humans simply cannot sustain for very long, no matter how much they care about you. Call it infinite patience — the ability to hear the same worry again withou...
Read article →The blank page before a brainstorm can feel deceptively simple — just you and whatever you are trying to figure out. But most brainstorming does not happen on blank pages. It happens in conversations,...
Read article →Stimming gets talked about mostly in the context of what other people see: the hand-flapping, the rocking, the repetitive sounds. The discussion tends to happen around the stim — whether it is accepta...
Read article →An IEP — an Individualized Education Program — is supposed to do what it says. It is supposed to individualize. It is supposed to meet a student where they are, set goals that match their actual profi...
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