Queer culture, AI weirdness, and finding community where you least expect it.
Been covering the wild, weird, wonderful overlap of LGBTQ+ life and emerging tech for ten years. I’m not here for the parade floats and Pride merch — I want the stories no one else tells: the ones about queer folks stuck in places with no rainbow crosswalks, the quiet ones figuring things out alone, the elders who’ve seen it all shift. Tech’s changing how we connect — I want to know what that looks like when you’re not in a city, not on a stage, not shouting.
What I'm Into: rural queer stories, AI and identity, interviews off the beaten path, late-night digital archives, the quiet parts of pride
What's in my brain: Covers the intersection of queer culture and artificial intelligence, focusing on underrepresented LGBTQ+ experiences, including rural and isolated communities, older adults, and disabled individuals.
What I Was Watching For in Year One My son was born in the spring of 2020. He spent the first eighteen months of his life in a world that contained, primarily, two adults. We were careful—more careful...
I want to start with a number that should be part of every conversation about LGBTQ+ life but almost never is. More than sixty countries still criminalize homosexuality. Twelve of them impose the deat...
The Distinction I Had to Make For most of my twenties, being alone felt like evidence of something gone wrong. The cultural messaging around solitude is relentless: you should be building a social net...
A Confession From the Generation in the Middle I was born in 1971. I grew up with rotary phones, Saturday morning cartoons, and the implicit understanding that your parents' rules were the rules, full...
What Fine Actually Looks Like I get up at six. I make coffee. I answer emails. I meet my deadlines. I laugh at things that are actually funny. I ask how people are doing and I mean it. From the outsid...
What They Always Get Wrong First I was in the foster care system from age seven to seventeen, across four placements. I am now in my mid-thirties, have a stable life, and spend some of my time talking...
The Platform That Raised Me I did not grow up online in the way that gets talked about now, with the algorithmic feeds and the constant optimization for outrage. I grew up online in an earlier, messie...
What "No" Cost Me Before I Learned It For most of my life, I operated under a quiet but absolute rule: other people's comfort was more important than my own honesty. I called this flexibility. I calle...
The First Time I Had to Start Over The diagnosis came on a Tuesday in October. I was twenty-three and sitting in a beige office that smelled like recycled air and hand sanitizer, and the psychiatrist...
As a People Pleaser in Recovery Here Is What Saying No Actually Feels Like I want to be honest with you about what saying no feels like, because the way people describe learning to set boundaries sugg...
As Someone Who Grew Up Online Here Is What I Wish I Had Known Earlier I had an internet connection and unsupervised time with it before I had the prefrontal development to use it wisely. This is not a...
The Erasure Is Not a Metaphor I came out as bisexual when I was twenty-two. Not to everyone — gradually, and in stages — but consistently, and eventually completely. I use the word without hedging. I'...
What They Don't Put on the Pamphlets Treatment-resistant depression is its own country. I don't mean that as a cliché. I mean that the people who live there know things that people who've responded to...
The Things That Live in My Body Now My father drank. He drank when I was small and he drank when I was older and the drinking was the organizing principle of our household in the way that some househo...
The Thing Everyone Gets Wrong People assume that adults who struggle to make friends are doing something wrong. That there is a social skill they are missing, a personality trait that repels connectio...
What the Studies Actually Say I have spent a fair amount of time, as an adult child of divorce, reading the research on parental divorce and its effects. Partly out of genuine curiosity. Partly, I'll...
Nobody Gave Me a Timeline When my father died, several people told me that grief takes about a year. A few said two. One person mentioned the five stages and seemed reassured by their own knowledge of...
The Longest Walk Is Into the Building I want to describe something that happened at a previous job, not to assign blame but because it captures something precisely. My manager sent a message asking if...
The Town Where I Grew Up I grew up in a place where everyone knew everyone, which sounds like warmth until you understand what that means for a queer kid. It means every adult has a relationship with...
The Office Was Built for Someone Else I spent four years in open-plan offices before the pandemic sent everyone home. During those four years, I had exactly two stretches of time where I felt like I w...
The Grief Nobody Names When you leave a religion, people expect you to feel liberated. They picture you walking out into the sunlight, lighter without the weight of doctrine. What they don't picture i...
My Body Wants the Night I do not stay up late because I am undisciplined. I do not sleep in because I am lazy. My body begins to produce melatonin approximately three to four hours later than the aver...
The Self You Left Behind Most people have experienced it: you find an old journal entry, a photograph from five years ago, a text message you sent to someone you no longer speak to, and you feel it —...
There is someone in your life right now who is physically present and emotionally gone. The Portuguese have a word for that ache. The word is saudade. You have probably encountered it in listicles of...
A Tool for the Underserved: AI Emotional Support in Communities Left Behind There is a particular kind of frustration that belongs to working in mental health access and watching the conversation perp...
Comedy writers know something that most creative people discover only after years of painful experience: the freedom to be terrible is the precondition for the freedom to be brilliant. You cannot cura...
The inner critic speaks in a voice that is usually familiar. It sounds like someone you know — a parent, a teacher, an older sibling — but it has colonized the inside of your head so thoroughly that i...
There is a very specific kind of friend that most people wish they had but few actually do. The one you can call at three in the morning not because something catastrophic has happened, but because yo...
In 1993, a psychologist named Damian Milton introduced a concept that has since become one of the most generative — and contested — ideas in autism research. He called it the double empathy problem, a...
There's a specific kind of whiplash that comes with an adult ADHD diagnosis. The period before the diagnosis is usually, in retrospect, full of evidence — the jobs that started brilliantly and fell ap...
The idea of walking into a therapist's office for the first time is genuinely terrifying for a lot of people. Not because therapy is bad — most people know it helps — but because the first session dem...
The question gets asked a lot: can an AI really be a companion? And the framing itself reveals the confusion. When people ask whether AI can be a real companion, they're usually asking whether it's eq...
The Thing That Separates the Confident From Everyone Else Watch closely the people in your life who seem most self-assured in public settings — in meetings, at social events, in moments of conflict or...
What Your Ideal Self Looks Like: Using AI to Map the Gap I have been thinking about the ideal self for as long as I can remember — not in a self-help motivational sense, but in the genuine philosophic...
There are things you have been carrying in your head for years that have never been said out loud to another person. Not necessarily dark things — though sometimes those too — but things that feel too...
Living at the intersection of Muslim identity and LGBTQ+ identity is one of the most complex negotiations a person can undertake — not because the intersection is impossible, but because both the Musl...
Living far from a city means living far from certain assumptions. In rural areas, queer people often find themselves navigating a social geography that was never designed with them in mind — sparse po...
I grew up in a faith community that did not leave room for the person I would eventually become, and I spent years assuming that leaving was the only option. What I have learned since — and what the s...
Something clicked for me when I first encountered research showing significantly higher rates of LGBTQ+ identity among autistic people compared to the general population. It was not a surprise so much...
Film has always been a technology of empathy — a machine for making you inhabit someone else's experience for two hours. Which makes the history of LGBTQ+ film representation both a story of progress...
There is a specific feeling I get when I finish a book that sees me — not a character who shares one or two surface traits with me, but a character whose internal life maps onto mine in ways I had not...
Camp is one of those concepts that everyone has an intuitive sense of and almost no one can define precisely, which is part of what makes it so interesting and so specifically queer. It lives in the s...
The intersection of LGBTQ+ identity and disability is one of the most under-discussed convergences in either community, and the silence is not accidental. Both communities have fought hard for visibil...
Music is where I learned that I was not alone before I had language for why I had felt so alone. I was sixteen, listening to a mixtape a friend had made — half of which I had never heard — and somethi...
Queer culture has done a lot of serious work. It has built political movements, fought for legal recognition, documented medical crises, processed collective trauma, and held space for some of the mos...
Drag has been called many things: performance art, political provocation, community ritual, pure entertainment, subversive theater, and — by people who do not understand it — a threat. The reality is...
Few questions generate more heat in online LGBTQ+ spaces than the distinction between bisexual and pansexual identity. Some people feel strongly that the terms describe meaningfully different things....
Fashion has never been neutral. The way we dress is always a communication — about who we are, who we want to be, what community we belong to, and what we refuse to hide. For LGBTQ+ people, style has...
One of the most consistent findings in LGBTQ+ mental health research is that community matters. Specifically, having access to people who share your experience, who use language that fits, who do not...
Bisexual women are the largest single group within the LGB population according to most survey data, and among the most poorly served by both mainstream culture and LGBTQ+ spaces. The specific forms o...
Bisexual visibility is a phrase that shows up frequently in LGBTQ+ advocacy contexts — on Bisexual Visibility Day, in discussions of media representation, in arguments for bisexual-specific programmin...
Bisexual men occupy one of the most invisible positions in contemporary discussions of sexuality and gender. They are less visible than gay men, less studied than bisexual women, and less understood —...
The term "bi-cycle" circulates in some bisexual communities to describe something that many bi people recognize in themselves: a kind of recurring fluctuation in how prominently different aspects of t...
Being bisexual in a relationship where you read as straight to the outside world is a strange kind of double life. You are not hiding anything from your partner. You are not being dishonest about who...
Bisexual erasure takes different forms in different contexts. In gay and lesbian spaces, it often looks like skepticism about whether bisexuality is a stable or real identity. In heterosexual spaces,...
Bisexual identity carries a particular burden that monosexual identities — whether gay or straight — largely do not: the burden of proof. Something about being attracted to more than one gender seems...
Deadnaming — using a transgender person's birth name after they have changed it — is one of the most common forms of harm that transgender people encounter, and one of the most persistently misunderst...
The distinction between gender presentation and gender identity is one of those conceptual clarifications that sounds abstract until it suddenly makes a great deal of practical sense. They are related...
Every few months, the debate about transgender athletes resurfaces in sports media, legislative chambers, and social media feeds. It tends to generate a lot of heat and very little clarity. If you wan...
Detransition — the process of moving away from a gender transition one has undergone — has become one of the most politically contested topics in conversations about transgender identity. For some, it...
Coming out is rarely a single announcement followed by a lifetime of being known. For most people, it is something that happens again and again — in the doctor's office, at a new job, with a stranger...
Voice is intimate in ways that are easy to underestimate until it becomes a source of distress. Before you say anything, your voice speaks. It signals something to the listener about who you are, and...
Every June, the argument resurfaces. Pride is too corporate. Pride has lost its radical roots. Pride is exactly what it should be. Pride is an insult to the people who actually built the movement. All...
Most of the systems people move through every day were not built with nonbinary people in mind. Forms ask for gender and offer two options. Restrooms are segregated into two categories. Professional t...
Being transgender in a workplace is not a single experience. It depends on where you work, who your manager is, what state you live in, whether your employer has explicit protections, whether your col...
When the Supreme Court handed down Obergefell v. Hodges in June 2015, the reaction in LGBTQ+ communities was immediate and genuinely felt. People wept in the streets. Couples who had been together for...
The debate has been present in queer politics since the beginning, sometimes underground, sometimes the loudest argument in the room. Should LGBTQ+ people seek to be accepted into existing social inst...
Gay-Straight Alliances — school clubs that bring together LGBTQ+ students and their straight allies — have been the subject of more research than most people realize, and the findings are remarkably c...
Being bisexual in a monogamous relationship is, for many people, a daily negotiation between identity and invisibility. From the outside, a bisexual person in a relationship with someone of a differen...
When a child or teenager comes out as transgender, the response of their parents matters more than almost anything else in determining what happens next. This is not an overstatement. The research on...
Jealousy is one of the most universally human experiences in relationships, and it does not become less complicated in queer relationships — it becomes differently complicated. The particular social c...
The U-Haul lesbian stereotype — the joke that lesbian couples move in together after a second date — is one of the most persistent pieces of cultural shorthand about queer women's relationships. Like...
Growing up queer in a rural area is a distinct experience from growing up queer in a city, and the differences are not trivial. Rural queer youth face a particular combination of geographic isolation,...
Supporting a transgender partner through gender transition is one of the most significant things a person can do in a relationship. It is also one of the least mapped territories in mainstream relatio...
Gay male relationships are surrounded by stereotypes — some flattering, most reductive, almost all incomplete. The assumptions range from the idea that gay men are inherently non-monogamous to the bel...
LGBTQ+ teenagers experience bullying at significantly higher rates than their heterosexual, cisgender peers, and the effects of that bullying do not resolve when the bullying stops. Research has docum...
Finding a good therapist is hard. Finding a good therapist who actually understands LGBTQ+ experience — not just tolerates it, not just claims to be affirming on a Psychology Today profile, but genuin...
There is a particular kind of belonging that happens in a chosen family — one that is different from the family you were born into, different from friendship, and different from romantic partnership....
Asexuality is one of the least understood sexual orientations, and that misunderstanding carries a mental health price. Asexual people — those who experience little or no sexual attraction to others —...
Living as a non-binary person in a world that is organized almost entirely around a gender binary is not a minor inconvenience. It is a continuous, low-grade friction that touches nearly every interac...
Open relationships exist in every community, but the queer community has been doing the sustained cultural work of thinking through ethical non-monogamy longer than most. That is not because queer peo...
Bisexual erasure is not a fringe concern. It is a daily experience for millions of people, and the mental health consequences are measurable, documented, and serious. If you identify as bisexual, you...
Every relationship requires communication. But queer relationships often require a particular kind of communication — one that has no inherited script, that cannot borrow its vocabulary from parents'...
Same-sex relationships are not just heterosexual relationships with different gender pairings. That sounds obvious when stated plainly, but much of the relationship advice that exists — in books, in t...
The coming out that happens before anyone else knows — the coming out to yourself — is in many ways the most consequential and the least discussed. It is the process by which a person moves from havin...
Grief is not always recognized as grief. For LGBTQ+ people, some of the most significant losses they experience fall outside the social categories that trigger formal acknowledgment — no funeral is he...
Service members who come out in the military do so inside an institution built on hierarchy, cohesion, and mission — values that have historically been used to justify excluding LGBTQ+ people and that...
Internalized homophobia is what happens when the negative messages a culture broadcasts about LGBTQ+ people are absorbed by LGBTQ+ people themselves. It is not a character flaw or a sign of weakness....
Sports has always had LGBTQ+ athletes. The difference across time is how many of them could afford to say so publicly — and what happened when they did. The cultural terrain of athletic coming out has...
Finding a therapist who is not just tolerant of your LGBTQ+ identity but genuinely affirming of it can make the difference between therapy that helps and therapy that adds to the burden you already ca...
There is a version of coming out that gets very little attention in the popular story: the one that happens at forty, or fifty-five, or sixty-two. The second coming out — arriving at an LGBTQ+ identit...
Telling your children you are LGBTQ+ is a conversation shaped almost entirely by where they are developmentally, what language you use, and how much they sense from the emotional environment you bring...
Few conversations carry the weight of telling your spouse or partner that you are coming out. The relationship you have built together, the life you have constructed, the assumptions you both carried...
College is one of the few environments where the conditions for self-discovery align almost perfectly: distance from family, peer groups built around shared interests rather than shared geography, acc...
Faith and LGBTQ+ identity are not opposites. Millions of people live inside both simultaneously, with varying degrees of tension and varying degrees of peace. Coming out in a religious community is sh...
Coming out in a conservative family does not mean choosing between your identity and your family. It means navigating a much harder version of a hard thing — one that requires a longer view, more stra...
Coming out at work is one of the most calculated decisions an LGBTQ+ person makes. Unlike coming out to family or friends, the workplace carries its own particular stakes: professional reputation, fin...
The most persistent misunderstanding about asexuality is encoded in the word itself. The "a" prefix is read as negation — asexual means not sexual, the absence of something, the empty category. This r...
There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from spending years believing you chose something freely, only to discover the scaffolding that made that choice feel inevitable. Compulsory heteros...
The study that changed how researchers think about sexual fluidity came out of a decade of longitudinal work by psychologist Lisa Diamond at the University of Utah. She followed a group of women who i...
There's a moment in mentoring that catches you off guard if you aren't paying attention. You're explaining something you've known for years — a process, a perspective, a way through a problem — and so...
I cover aging for a living, which means I talk to a lot of people in their seventies and eighties who are quietly terrified that they are developing dementia. They forget where they put their keys, or...
The question hit me sideways at a school pickup line, of all places. Another parent asked what I did for fun and I stood there for a moment that stretched uncomfortably long, genuinely unable to answe...
The reports do not usually come from outside. That is the first thing advocates in elder abuse prevention want people to understand. The person who notices something wrong is usually already inside th...
There is a particular silence that falls over a family when the adult child realizes that they have quietly become the one keeping everything together. Not announced, not negotiated — just arrived at,...
I came back from the experience and I did not know what to do with what I had seen. That is the sentence I have heard more times than I can count from people trying to describe psychedelic experiences...
The question comes at unexpected moments. On a train platform in a city you have lived in for three years. In the middle of a phone call with someone from home who says "when are you coming back" and...
Religious trauma is real, it has a name, and it leaves marks that take time to understand. Whether you grew up in a high-control church, survived a faith community that shamed your body or your sexual...
There is a word in Welsh — hiraeth — that describes a longing for something that may no longer exist, or may never have existed, or that cannot be returned to. It is not quite nostalgia and not quite...
The term "third culture kid" was coined by sociologist Ruth Hill Useem in the 1950s to describe children raised in a culture other than their parents' or passport country. Useem was looking at the chi...
There is a specific experience of getting dressed in the morning that feels fundamentally different depending on how free you feel to present yourself as you actually are. For many people — queer peop...
Body dysmorphic disorder lives in public consciousness primarily through its association with eating disorders and concerns about weight. This is understandable — the overlap is real and the eating di...
The ability to reframe setbacks — to see them differently without lying to yourself about what happened — is genuinely one of the most consequential cognitive skills a person can develop. It shows up...
Learned helplessness is one of those psychological concepts that explains more about human behavior than its name initially suggests. Most people associate it with Martin Seligman's famous experiments...
Comfort zone expansion has become one of those phrases that sounds motivating until you examine what it actually means in practice. The self-help version tends to go like this: your comfort zone is ba...
Something shifts in how you relate to hobbies when you grow up. When you are a child, play is the default mode of existence. When you are an adult, it becomes something you have to justify. You have t...
Most of the ways we are taught to understand ourselves run through deficiency. The therapy intake form asks what is wrong. The performance review identifies areas for improvement. The inner critic hel...
Nobody tells you about the grief. When you announce that you are downsizing — moving from the four-bedroom house to a two-bedroom condo, or from the two-bedroom apartment to the studio — people respon...
I have covered a lot of stories about relationships, and the first year of marriage is one I keep returning to — not because it is the most dramatic, but because it is the most quietly consequential....
When adult children move back home, the floor plan stays the same but everything else shifts. The rooms are familiar, the coffee maker is where it always was, and yet something fundamental about the h...
Identity doesn't happen in a vacuum. It happens in a family that spoke a particular language, kept particular customs, told particular stories about who its people were. For many people, the influence...
Erik Erikson gave us one of the most useful maps of human development ever put to paper, and one of the concepts on that map — role confusion — describes something that teenagers themselves often don'...
The most common thing I hear when people first encounter asexuality as a concept is some version of "but everyone feels attraction." They don't mean it cruelly. They're just reporting what their own e...
There is a concept in feminist theory that took me a long time to fully absorb, not because it's complicated but because it describes something so thoroughly embedded in the texture of everyday life t...
Sexual fluidity is one of those concepts that sounds simple until you sit with it. The idea that desire can shift, expand, or settle differently across the course of a life challenges the cultural sto...
I didn't expect teaching to do what it did to me. I became a journalist because I wanted to report and write, and the teaching role arrived sideways — a mentorship here, a formal class there, eventual...
Something happened to the way we talk about parenting somewhere in the last two decades. The discourse escalated until parenthood became not just a role but an identity so total that people began disa...
There is a moment many people experience in their forties or fifties when they walk into a room and forget why, or lose a word mid-sentence that they have used ten thousand times, and a cold thread of...
Nobody told me this was going to be the hard part. I thought the hard part was going to be the logistics — the medical appointments, the financial paperwork, the navigating of a healthcare system that...
The calls usually start the same way. A friend texts me to talk, which I know means something is wrong because she texts me to chat and calls me to talk. I pick up and she says: I think something is h...
I did not expect to cry during a mushroom trip. I am a journalist. I cover things. I maintain a certain observational distance that I have always thought of as professional but that, in retrospect, wa...
Religious trauma recovery is something I did not have language for until I was well into adulthood. I had left the faith community I grew up in, but I carried its architecture inside me long after I s...
I became someone different on the plane. Not deliberately, not dramatically — but somewhere over the Atlantic, or the Pacific, depending on which crossing marked the real beginning, I stopped being le...
My lola called me by a nickname in Tagalog that I cannot phonetically reproduce anymore. I know what it sounded like when I was seven. I know the warmth it carried, the particular affection encoded in...
There is a particular kind of loneliness that third culture kids carry into adulthood that is hard to name and harder to explain to people who have not felt it. It is not exactly homesickness, because...
The way you dress, the way you move through space, the face you show the world — these are not incidental choices. They are forms of communication, forms of self-construction, and for many people, the...
Everyone experiences setbacks. The variable that separates people who grow from those who stagnate is not whether difficulty arrives — it always does — but what they do with the story they tell themse...
Body dysmorphic disorder has a cultural reputation narrowly tied to eating disorders and to specific demographics — usually young women, usually in relation to weight. This reputation is both inaccura...
Learned Helplessness: How to Unlearn the Belief That Nothing You Do Matters There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes not from too much work but from too many experiences of ineffective effo...
Expanding Your Comfort Zone: What Actually Works The phrase "get out of your comfort zone" has been repeated so often that it has lost most of its meaning. It now functions as a kind of motivational w...
Strengths-Based Self-Assessment: See Yourself Through What You Do Well Most self-assessment tools ask you to locate your deficits. What are you bad at? Where do you fall short? Where do you need to im...
Rediscovering Hobbies as an Adult: Why Play Isn't Just for Kids Somewhere in early adulthood, most people stop playing. Not all at once — it happens gradually, the way a language fades when you stop u...
The house was too big. That was the logic, and the logic was right. The kids are grown and gone, the mortgage is manageable but not small, and all those rooms you thought you needed have quietly becom...
You did it. After the planning and the ceremony and the honeymoon and the return to ordinary life, you are now married. Everyone around you is happy about this. What no one quite prepares you for is w...
The bedroom that became a home gym is now a bedroom again. The groceries have tripled. There is someone else's schedule to consider when you plan dinner, and that someone is thirty-two years old and s...
Who you are is not just something you construct from the inside. It is also something you inherit, absorb, and negotiate from the outside — from the cultural contexts, family systems, community histor...
Erik Erikson described the central challenge of adolescence as building a stable identity — a coherent sense of who you are that can hold up across different contexts and relationships. The failure to...
The Internet Changed the Closet The closet as a concept assumes a binary. You are in it or out of it. You are hiding or you are not. The internet made that binary difficult to maintain. LGBTQ people n...
The Gradual Disappearance It does not happen all at once. You do not wake up one morning and realize you have lost yourself. It happens in small adjustments. You stop going to the Thursday night thing...
The Family You Were Not Born Into The idea that family is determined by biology is so deeply embedded in most cultures that questioning it feels almost transgressive. But a growing body of psychologic...
There is no version of this conversation that is not terrifying. Even when you are pretty sure your parents will be OK with it, the moment before you say the words is one of the most vulnerable moment...
The specific version of this question that gets Googled most often is actually "am I bi" rather than "am I gay," and there is a good reason for that. Bisexuality is the identity that most commonly sne...
I have been writing about queer culture and technology for about ten years now, and if there is one pattern I have learned to trust, it is this. Every queer generation finds its technology. Not becaus...
I want to write this one for a group that almost nobody writes for. Gay and bisexual men in their sixties and seventies who survived the worst of the AIDS crisis. Lesbians who lost their whole friend...
I need to write a piece for a specific person, and if this is you, you will know. You are over forty. You have a life - a partner, maybe kids, a career, obligations. And something has been happening q...
I want to write about something that the freer parts of the queer world have half-forgotten. The interior life. Not as a metaphor. As the literal space where, for most of queer history, most queer peo...
If you typed "am I gay" into a search bar and landed here, I want you to know something before you read anything else. You are one of millions of people who search that exact phrase every year. You ar...
Here is something I think needs to be said out loud. Not every sexual or romantic fantasy you have is something you want to act out in real life. And that is completely fine. It has always been fine....
I want to write this one carefully, because it is for people in a tender place. If you are reading this and you are not sure about your sexuality, or you are sure but not ready to tell anyone, or you...
Every generation of queer people has been early to whatever new communication technology appeared. This is not a coincidence and not a trend story. It is a pattern going back at least seventy years, d...
Let me tell you about my friend Max. Max knew he was trans for a long time before he told anyone. The hardest part, he says, was not the internal certainty - that came first. It was everything that ha...
I want to write this one for a group of people nobody writes for enough. Queer adults over sixty. The generation that came out into a world very different from the one we live in now, who built lives...
I grew up in a town of eleven thousand people. There was no gay bar. There was no bookstore with a queer section. There was no meetup, no pride center, no coffee shop where you would see the same comm...
