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Fashion has never been neutral. The way we dress is always a communication — about who we are, who we want to be, what community we belong to, and what we refuse to hide. For LGBTQ+ people, style has...
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One of the most consistent findings in LGBTQ+ mental health research is that community matters. Specifically, having access to people who share your experience, who use language that fits, who do not...
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Bisexual women are the largest single group within the LGB population according to most survey data, and among the most poorly served by both mainstream culture and LGBTQ+ spaces. The specific forms o...
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Bisexual visibility is a phrase that shows up frequently in LGBTQ+ advocacy contexts — on Bisexual Visibility Day, in discussions of media representation, in arguments for bisexual-specific programmin...
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Bisexual men occupy one of the most invisible positions in contemporary discussions of sexuality and gender. They are less visible than gay men, less studied than bisexual women, and less understood —...
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The term "bi-cycle" circulates in some bisexual communities to describe something that many bi people recognize in themselves: a kind of recurring fluctuation in how prominently different aspects of t...
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Being bisexual in a relationship where you read as straight to the outside world is a strange kind of double life. You are not hiding anything from your partner. You are not being dishonest about who...
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Bisexual erasure takes different forms in different contexts. In gay and lesbian spaces, it often looks like skepticism about whether bisexuality is a stable or real identity. In heterosexual spaces,...
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Monosexism is the assumption — usually unstated, often structural — that sexual orientation is binary: that you are either attracted to people of your own gender, or to people of a different gender, a...
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Bisexual identity carries a particular burden that monosexual identities — whether gay or straight — largely do not: the burden of proof. Something about being attracted to more than one gender seems...
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Deadnaming — using a transgender person's birth name after they have changed it — is one of the most common forms of harm that transgender people encounter, and one of the most persistently misunderst...
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Medical transition is not a single event. It is a sequence — sometimes slow, sometimes surprising, always personal. If you are standing at the beginning of that sequence, or somewhere in the middle wo...
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The distinction between gender presentation and gender identity is one of those conceptual clarifications that sounds abstract until it suddenly makes a great deal of practical sense. They are related...
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Every few months, the debate about transgender athletes resurfaces in sports media, legislative chambers, and social media feeds. It tends to generate a lot of heat and very little clarity. If you wan...
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Detransition — the process of moving away from a gender transition one has undergone — has become one of the most politically contested topics in conversations about transgender identity. For some, it...
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Gender-affirming care is a term that has become politically charged in ways that obscure what it actually describes. In the clinical context, gender-affirming care refers to a set of practices — medic...
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Coming out is rarely a single announcement followed by a lifetime of being known. For most people, it is something that happens again and again — in the doctor's office, at a new job, with a stranger...
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Voice is intimate in ways that are easy to underestimate until it becomes a source of distress. Before you say anything, your voice speaks. It signals something to the listener about who you are, and...
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Every June, the argument resurfaces. Pride is too corporate. Pride has lost its radical roots. Pride is exactly what it should be. Pride is an insult to the people who actually built the movement. All...
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Bisexual people have existed in every era, in every culture. The evidence for this is abundant if you look at literature, history, and the biographies of people who loved across gender lines without f...
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Most of the systems people move through every day were not built with nonbinary people in mind. Forms ask for gender and offer two options. Restrooms are segregated into two categories. Professional t...
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Conversion therapy is the set of practices aimed at changing a person's sexual orientation or gender identity from LGBTQ+ to heterosexual and cisgender. The practices have gone by many names — reparat...
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Being transgender in a workplace is not a single experience. It depends on where you work, who your manager is, what state you live in, whether your employer has explicit protections, whether your col...
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For most of American military history, LGBTQ+ service members had two options: hide or be discharged. The formal policies changed over time, but the underlying logic — that openly gay, lesbian, or bis...
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